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Everything you need to know about Narcissism, Addiction and Abuse
When you change the way you look at things,
The things you look at change.
“If you know your archetypes – and not just yours, if you know how to perceive the world in archetypes, through archetypes – everything changes. Everything. Because you have two things: you can see through one eye which is impersonal, and through the other, which is personal. That’s the way the game is written down here.” ~ Caroline Myss
The original pantheon of Gods are not separate from us, in all humans there lies a collective blueprint of existence. There is nothing more prominent than Narcissism to show that their behaviours are the stuff we are blueprints of. In Gods image, with a will to live; there are three of man’s Archetypes which rise within us all. Individuals are waking up from these abusive patterns only to project out their anger and frustration. I believe in understanding rather than blaming and finding fault in their behaviour. One should look within and honestly deconstruct your perception of yourself because “When you see a worthy person, endeavor to emulate him. When you see an unworthy person, examine your inner self.” Confucius.
“Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it.”– Confcius
As a child, I remember very few details of my life growing up. One of the many problems with NPD is; as you finally understand the genuine nature of your mal-adaptation to society, the reach the disorder has is clear on so many levels; it seeks to extract life, keep you in a state of need. The experiences are depressing. This includes our failure to succeed in life. That this abuse is not just in your neighbourhood, in your workplace, it happens in your family too. Just as it is with all life, the problem lies not with the disorder but the victims too. It is not an intentional behaviour (although in might seem that way) nor is it their fault; it is an emotional barrier which severely affects your ability to parent a child. It is a morbid discovery of oneself, so inform yourself to improve your life and your interactions with your children. There is a way to get through these difficulties if well informed you can make educated resolutions, you to put in the work, you will succeed in anything you do. Having insight helped me grow through the pain of what I’d been through and the truth behind it all. For an introduction to me and my story, follow my blog or…
There are two types of Narcissism; the first is overt, loud, in your face. This is the opposite end of the scale to the Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), which is like a cancer (you don’t see it until it’s too late). It might not look like it from the outside, but a person who has not woken up to their abuse, or can a person who has not experienced the “evil” infectious disorder; come to understand, the depths to which the will evil will go and the imperceptible effects it has; not only on their victims but the impact of their childhood trauma of their past; transferred by the parent, throughout the years of growing up, would never understand the impact it has on the child’s life, and as an adult. It is an accurate assumption that it will affect their future children too. The child sacrifices their emotional wellbeing not while in your care but in adulthood. Detrimental to us even if there are signs it is difficult to detect, and it only manifests itself when the child is an adult. The strict and toxic parenting or the grandparents, who manipulate their children; will get exactly what they want and end up costing the child as an adult something of himself. To find out more…
Throughout my biography, I will explore the impact of narcissism on the individual; the implications it has on society and the true meaning of family. The rise in Substance use and domestic abuse; the impact it has on our relationships; it is all parallelled to the rise in Narcissism. The reason we don’t see it; is thanks to the insidious reality of it all; starting within the family. I am about to open your eyes to the destruction and how to recognise it. I will go in depth and detail the long-term impairment, which occurs from this dangerous disorder. We are never alone, everyone can benefit; even those who have NPD. We must break the stigma, it is not by choice, no one chooses this mentality. Understand and explore the true meanings of: abandonment, neglect, anxiety, enabling, trauma bonding, projection and the truth about abuse, toxic relationships and each of the roles played, and by whom. Explore what true pathological behaviour is, the effects of depression and a what a life of addiction is for both substances and our emotions. I have made the connections for your reading pleasure…
“I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you simply, without problems or pride: I love you in this way because I do not know any other way of loving but this, in which there is no I or you, so intimate that your hand upon my chest is my hand, so intimate that when I fall asleep your eyes close.”
― Pablo Neruda, 100 Love Sonnets
I’m all for conspiracies, I’m an enormous fan of mythology and I understand the truth about addiction and what it means to be an unconscious parent. I would love to share my ideas and thoughts with you about the sudden increase of awakening with every person affected and those who are victims of the relationships they had with narcissists.