How do you heal or recover from a relationship with a narcissist?

Aguide on how to get over and heal from a relationship with a narcissist.

The artform of parenting

There is a secret; which most parents don’t know and that is; your child does not do what you say (your child is a source of chaos, learning, absorbing and ever watching), your child does as you do (judging your emotional reactions to stress). A child really learns from their caregivers’; they watch our actions, mimic reactions, develop their future on our emotional responses and as we know, our children watch and learn everything we do.

Relationships and narcissism

This is a guide to relationships with narcissists. There is far too much information out there. It is all about the victims’ perspective on “how they won’t ever change, you can never trust them, & don’t waste your time”. The truth; they probably never had the courage to confront any problems head on; narcissists can change, it is hard work, but we do.

What are narcissistic parents like?

What does it mean to be a “strict” or “narcissistic” parent? I will explain the duality of what your take now from your kids, they will only suffer for that sacrifice; when they are older.

Step mom VS Daughter

Enter Oliver cook. The precognition of getting stuck in the mud with the land rover. Skippy and I had a huge fight. I made Cecil choose between his daughter and I.

The land of the daisies

Cecil and I attend his mother’s funeral. Tassie and Skippy move out. Cecil loses his job, I quit mine. Gert Gelderblom makes a run for it and The family structure begins crumbling.

Pending Her Approval

Still waiting for her approval… I will never get that I guess. I was lead to believe something different to what my parents told me.

I’ll Look After Her

My sister’s birthday today, so I’m dedicating a post to the golden child. We have no contact due to her abusive manner she used to manipulate me into backing off; by making my daughter phone me in tears.

What Would A Narcissist Do If You Leave Them Before They’re Ready?

Narcissistic exes by number. What would they not do after you leave them; the answer is they don’t leave you alone.

Triangulate This.

Triangulation is the narcissists way of communicating, to deny is much easier when you can not be held responsible for what you said. Gaslighting, denial, manipulation. All of it is used to warp your views on reality.